Mississippi Songbird tagged me to put up seven random things about me and although i've done this several times I don't mind doing it again and I love reading it when others do it! I don't put up many week-end posts either but i'm by myself this week-end so... without further ado.

1) I know the saying goes that a woman should cut her hair when she reaches 40 but I honestly feel I look better with longer hair.

2) I have just come to the decision to cut loose a long-time friend. The friendship has run it's course i'm afraid. I am sad but I think i'll feel better when the pretense is over with.

3) I almost moved to Boston in my mid-20's before I got married. I had a job lined up and even went up to scout out apartments. I am glad I didn't do it though. I have no regrets about that.

4) I do not like sausage. I will eat it on a very rare occasion but it is one breakfast food I just do not like. Give me bacon any day.

5) I cannot stand soccer. I don't even like to watch little kids playing it. I used to go with my BFF to watch her nephew play and it bored me to TEARS.

6) I love the way my hair looks the day I wash it but I can't wash it every day. It would dry it out too much. The next day, no matter if I sleep flat on my face the night before, it looks scraaggly. I HATE scraggly hair! LOL

7) I hate talking on the telephone. I have become almost phobic about it and wonder if it's healthy. I let all of my workcalls go to voicemail 90% of the time. I will answer my cellphone if I know who is calling though. I feel like a freak about this.

Okay that is it.... I am not going to tag anyone but if you did it let me know! Hope you all have a happy week-end!

I had to go get a new ID badge picture made (the other was short blonde hair - so not me these days LOL) then look over some stuff before I remembered I didn't put up a blog post yet.

Still no word on the job but I am supposed to hear something today. I will post an update when I do so y'all send positive vibes okay? Just some random things i'm going to post in bullets.

* I hate waiting on things but I love having something to look forward to. Does that make ANY sense?

* I am so sick sick sick of going to doctors and the people I love having to go to the doctor. I could just SCREAM.

* Sometimes my husband DOES take the intiative and does something even when I tell him not to. Thanks honey.

* Why in the world is everything associated with dance class so freaking expensive? Almost $90 for a costume that she would normally only wear at her recital (but they have an engagement at the Miss Darlington Pagaent next Saturday night) is excessive in my opinion. Not to mention we always have to buy the "special" tights and this time "special" paint to paint the shoes. Geez Louise!

* Why can I not chase away this little black cloud that seems to be following me around these days??? Shoo! Little Cloud - Shoo!

* I know I am the one in control of my own happiness. Why can't I break free and do something if I really want to? Why do I always make excuses? I get so mad at myself.

* Posting random thoughts on my blog does not constitute talking to my internet friends behind anyone's back. It is just a way to vent. I repeat -Just a way to vent. Cheaper than going to a psychiatrist too.

* There is a picture of Madison right after she turned 1 wearing a beautiful red dress for Christmas. We did it so her "Pa" could see her looking so pretty. He died a few days later. I love that picture of her and will always be glad we did that.

* I miss my FIL so much. For some odd reason I had a dream about him and SFG's FIL last night. Maybe because we both loved our FIL's alot.

* Thank you to everyone who takes a moment to come here and read my mundane postings. Even if you don't leave a comment, I appreciate you. The ones who do comment, and especially the ones who comment regularly, Thank You from the bottom of my heart for caring and making me smile, making me laugh and giving different points of view.

Yeah I think we're going on a beachy bent next Christmas. Although I know I have my airblown detractors likePurpleTwinkie and LeLo but hey these were 90% off. Who could resist such a bargain? I also got a surfboard Santa for my nephew Chad. That's all they had though or I guess I would have got them all and found homes for them later. I can't resist a homeless airblown *smirk*

My "new" readers can go back to November and check out my 2007 Christmas decor. Don't hate!

Now... if only I could find a way to get an airblown of my monogram. Oh the possibilities!

Shamelessly stolen from TigerYogi

What is in the back seat of your car right now? A carseat, some crumbs, maybe a few petrified french fries or m&m's hell Jimmy Hoffa may reside there for all I know!

When was the last time you threw up? Beginning of last month when I had a little virus. Yuck!

What’s your favorite curse word? The “F” word but i'm working on it. So unladylike.

Name 3 people who made you smile today? Mmmm I haven't exactly smiled yet

What were you doing at 8 a.m. this morning? It's not 8 yet!

What were you doing 30 minutes ago? Dressing Madison and feeding the dog and cats

Have you ever been to a strip club? Yes

What is the last thing you said aloud? God I hope I get that job!

What is the best ice cream flavor? French Vanilla

What was the last thing you had to drink? Coke Zero

What are you wearing right now? Monogrammed sweater, navy tights, navy skirt, plaid ballet flats, bra & undies (like i'd admit if I went commando HAH!) wedding rings and silver signet ring given to me by Katie & Cheeky.

What was the last thing you ate? A doughnut last night

Have you bought any new clothes this week? Yes

Where were you last? The parking lot at Crying Cow Bank

What’s the last sporting event you watched? The Packers/Giants heartbreak Sunday

Who won? New York

Who is the last person you sent a comment/message while blogging? Probably Andie

Ever go camping? Yes,a long time ago

Where do you live? Darlington, South Carolina

What song are you listening to? Nothing

Do you tan? Yes

Do you drink your soda from a straw? No

What did your last text message say? "it's all good" (re: football game)

Who’s your best friend? Stacy

What are you doing tomorrow? Work and Dance Class

Where is your mom right now? At home sitting at the breakfast table

Look to your right, what do you see? A telephone, adding machine, some trays.

What color is your watch? Not wearing a watch today

What do you think of when you think of where you live? NASCAR (everybody does)

Ever ridden on a roller coaster? Yes. I love them!

What is your birthstone? Opal

Do you go in at a fast-food place or just hit the drive through? I prefer to go in, I despise take out food.

What is your favorite number? 38

Do you have a dog? Yes my darling Reilly

Last person you talked to on the phone? Kathy

Have you met anyone famous? Yes several Nascar drivers, New Kids On The Block, ummm others but i'm drawing a blank now.

Any plans today? Work, Pick up baby, cook dinner.

How many states have you lived in? PA, VA (briefly) & SC so that's three.

Ever go to college? Yes

Where are you right now? At work.

Biggest annoyance in your life right now? I want some time away with the hub.

Are you struggling to forgive someone right now? No. I’m past that.

Are you allergic to anything? Pollen & that kind of stuff.

Favorite pair of shoes? Oh God I can't pick just one!

Feel free to steal this (DAWN) LOL

Finish the sentence....
I saw this on a blog awhile back, and I thought it would be fun to do it again. Let me know if you play too!

Finish the sentence with the 1st thought that comes to your mind.

I know....I will get this job I interviewed for

I believe...in miracles.

I fought.... alot with those I love most last week

I am angered....by things not going as I want them to

I love....my husband and daughter more than anything

I need....some alone time somewhere with my husband

I take..... more than I give lately

I hear....none too well these days

I drink.....too much diet soda

I hate....not having anything to "look forward to"

I use.... correct punctuation

I want.....to go on a trip

I like.....being silly

I feel....thankful

I wear....a denim shirt, black trousers, multi colored ribbon ballet flats, my wedding rings, silver monogram ring, monogram bracelet and monogram necklace.

I left....the bed un-made this morning

I do..... want my kitchen sink unclogged

I hope....my husband will surprise me very soon

I dream....about going back to school in the Fall (and i'm working on it)

I drive....a car that's paid for but I wish I could win a contest for a new one

I listen....to the radio while driving in the car

I type..... fast

I think.... about both sides of the situation

I need... a trip somewhere

I wish... we would hit the lottery for a few million

I am.... a good person

I regret.... some things but not much

I care.... what people think of me

I should....lose weight

I am.... a wife,mother,daughter,sister,aunt and friend

I said.... more in my interview than I thought I would

I wonder....if my husband is truly glad he married me

I changed....when I became a mother.

I cry...easily

I lose.... track of my thoughts alot

I leave... as much negativity behind as I can

I will get caught up on my blog visits today! And respond to your comments of yesterday. I hope everyone enjoyed their day off for MLK Day if you had it!

First off Satuday morning we had a birthday party at Chik-A-Lay for my nephew Ethan. Here are Brittany & Madison

Although Dr. Whitehead wouldn't clear her to go to Fundaygo she still played some at Chik-A-Lay - wildchild! LOL

Here are me, Carrie and my sister Kathy. How come I always get caught in a "dorky" pose???

Me & Stac chowing down on breakfast :)

Then that afternoon we went to a Pig Pickin' at our friend Bo & Stacey's. Can I just be corny and say "Bo KNOWS BBQ?" The man produced one mean pig and his sauce.. oh his sauce. Delish! It was a nice bunch of peeps.

Am I still a Packers Fan? YOU BETCHA! (disappointed though)

Maria at I Can See Clearly Now surprised us with a boxful of goodies yesterday in the mail! Maddie was so happy when she saw it!

Then she got undressed to get dressed for dance class and in the middle started opening her box. Mixed up funny little kid!
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The Biscuit's Valentines Day book is so cute! She also got a ton of drawing stuff and crayons, markers and a frou~frou pen that Mommy might just hi-jack *snicker* This kid just LOVES to write, draw, color and I love the cool chicks on the card! Click on pic to see the card but ignore the clutter behind her Mmmmkay?......
Thank You so much Maria and family for making another day so special for my little one. She said "Why all these people love me Mommy" I said "Because you are so-o-o-o special my darling!". That seemed to satisfy her..
She got her stitches out yesterday but we still have to watch the bites for infection. One looks bad still. :( She still went to danceclass llike a trouper!

Disgruntled Daisy and her significant other ManBlogger sent Madison a package which arrived yesterday. She plopped right down in the entranceway, coat still on, to try and tear open the package LOL (she also vacuumed up her own mess - she's good like that!)

A darling Mary Engelbreit card (to the left), a stuffed "Ballet Kitty" and the Book to match.

Also the Book with CD included in it "Puff The Magic Dragon" you can barely see it to the right of her. Sorry! We have already read the books and she looked at me like I was NUTS when I was singing Puff LOL

Thank you so much for making my little girl feel so special. You all have done so many nice things for her from sending things to sending your good wishes and healing vibes. Each and everything is greatly appreciated!

With a little help from her friend........

These two are super devoted to each other. As I mentioned yesterday she had a rough night so when we got home she undressed, grabbed my snowman throw and settled down for a nap. It didn't take Sneaky long to join the party!

I still didn't get to talk to Animal Control. He didn't call me (Caller ID) so I called back once I got home. I left a detailed message with the lady there. Hopefully we will have a chance to talk tomorrow. I told the lady I don't mean to be a pest or be ugly or whatever but this is a very serious situation and my three year old's safety is an issue. She agreed. Keep your fingers crossed that this doesn't get any worse before it gets better. Thank you all again for your kind comments and emotional support. It means alot.
Cheeky she got your card! How CUTE! But... she hid it before I could take a pic of it. I don't know WHAT it is about that kid hiding your cards but she does. Like it's stolen booty or something LOL

Madison got home to a full mailbox. She received this super-cute kittycat card fromShell
and a box of goodies fromJenie!
We spent the evening coloring and I will spend this evening picking stickers off my livingroom wall, ahem. :)

This is how the box came, see the colorful tissue paper. That girl is creative!

I don't know how good you can see but she was watching the Strawberry Shortcake movie Jenie sent her here. Ewww...ignore the used bandage laying on her bed. It's just got neosporin on it.

Thank y'all so much for making my little girl feel so special. We had a bad moment last night as Alex GOT OUT and was IN OUR YARD between the time I got home and Stacy got home. Madison was thankfully inside but she heard the neighbor boy telling Stacy and......... nightmares all night long. I don't know what we're going to do. *sigh*

Thank you for four years of joy you have brought to us darling doggie! He gets a special birthday treat today (a dogfood cake)

I had a good week-end. Went to Summerville (yep the same Summerville Cheryl) to see my MIL. Madison was VERY glad to go as she wanted to go last week-end. Now "Ma" came up to see her this week after the accident but she loves to go down there and stay. Anyway Ma and Maddie went off to do their thing Saturday afternoon/evening and Stacy, Chandler, Buffy & I went to Wild Wings Cafe' to watch the PACKERS beat the Seahawks! I had a few libations and they went a long way to relaxing me after a very very tough week. It was nice.

Boo Yah to the Giants in their win over Dallas!

Madison is talking a little more about Alex but I still don't think she will have a lifelong fear of big dogs or anything. We just let her talk when she wants to and reiterate that we will try to keep her as safe as we can at all times. *sigh* It's hard. I am worried about one of her bites trying to become infected but i'm watching it and if she runs a fever it's back to the ER we will go. Let's pray it doesn't come to pass.
Again Thank You all for your kindness. You really do rock. Jenie & Cheeky we are anxiously watching the mailbox :)

Hey Y'all! I'm glad to be back to a little bit of "normalcy". Maddie is doing okay, i'm not going to lie and say she's fine but she is a tough little cookie and on the mend. First off I want to say I haven't went and read the whopping 35+ comments on the post Katie kindly put up so you all wouldn't think I had vanished off the face of the earth - but THANK YOU for the kind thoughts, vibes, prayers I felt them all. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

I also need to thank these four chicks who totally rocked a little girls world;
Southern Fried Girl, Katie, Shell & Cheeky

This bear sings the Carpenter's song: "Top Of The World" and his mouth even moves. This has raised the bar for all teddy bears in Madison's book now. Nothing will ever measure up! Plus it is gorgeous to look at! The flower basket is so dainty and pretty and that child does love balloons!

Here is an overall pic. Thank you so much. She kept saying "Is that for ME Mommy? Is that MINE?" LOL

Yes the last two days have been very very tough but it could have been so.much.worse. Madison could have been killed. She could have had more injuries to her pretty little face. She does have some scratches and bruising on her face but the worse injuries are on her left thigh. She's got two deep bites on the front and one on the back. I won't get all graphic and ruin anybodys breakfast but let's just say thinking about them makes me very very queasy. Cleaning and changing the bandaging twice a day isn't a picnic either. Nor is forcing her to take her antibiotic twice daily (Augmentin - the milky nasty one ACK!). Isn't it amazing what we can do when we HAVE TO? Just continue to pray that she doesn't have to have plastic surgery and the no infection sets in. Again Thank You. So.Very.Much.

***** I plan on responding to your comments also so don't give up on me there. I've got to actually DO some work here today *snort*

Hey everyone, this is Katie hijacking (with permission of course!)

Just wanted to let you know what's going on and let you know the lack of post from Patti today does not mean she doesn't like us.

Maddie was attacked by a German Shepard today, here is the e-mail I received from Patti explaining what happened:


She was next door playing with the neighbors kids and their german shephard, Alex, attacked her. She got multiple bites and scratches on her upper legs and back and a small scratch on her face. The bites on her upper thighs and back of her leg were very deep and wide and she had to get stitches for those. She is doing okay today, sleeping right now. It will take some time for my babygirl to heal though. She is so tough. She said this a.m. "Mamma I want to go to Chick A Lay (read: Chik Fil A) and play but my legs won't let me". She's too damn funny, that kid. Animal control is involved but I am reccomending they not destroy the dog. I just don't feel right about that. I do want them to either get rid of it or put a locked padlock on the gate. Okay there goes the door again.

All the Christmas decor is gone.... look at Spooky in the middle she always has to be in the thick of things. Crazy cat! You can click on the pics to make them bigger I don't know why they came out so small.

Do you think us South Carolinians are state proud? I think we have the prettiest state flag and I have it on alot of stuff (as you can see).Alot of people think it is a palmetto tree and moon but it's a crescent sword reminiscent of the weapons used in the revolutionary war to defend our fair state. There were numerous revolutionary war battles fought here in SC (Battle of Cowpens comes to mind) so that is your history lesson for today boys and girls :)

Stacy got out the wicker furniture we got an AWESOME end of season deal on ($500 set for $75 - yep). Four chairs and a table including the thick cushions.

Stacy finally put up my stained glass window that I bought myself for my birthday. I am going to try my hand at painting these windows if I can get some old windows. I put out a post on Freecycle.com (thanks Tony!)

Went shopping on Saturday and scored some bar-gains! This is Madison's "valentine dress" (she picked it out herself at Kohl's). $8.00 Yep! She said she is a princess in this dress. I told her "Darlin' you're a princess in anything you wear".

Then I went to my other favorite store Belk (Cheeky knows Belk). Valentines jeans for $5.00 Madison loved these too!

These came from the Big Red Bullseye 90% holiday clearance .... $.49 yep under a dollar. I got another pair too with snowmen on them. They're just the thing for Madison playing in the yard and digging in the dirt.

I got these pants at Belk for $3.49 they are cute khakis and you can turn the cuff up or roll it down.

I got these leopard ballet flats for Carrie (who LOVES anything leopard) $5.00!

I got these preppy plaid for me also $5.00

I also got Madison two j khaki t-shirts at Belk for $.98 each! Red and light blue. I very rarely ever pay retail for clothes. I love to bargain hunt.

I've had a few of these........


Some rambling thoughts that were in my head screaming to get out.

WHY didn't I freeze the liquor first?

Why are some drinks so yummylicious?

Why can't I speak fluent french after downing several French Martinis. It just doesn't seem fair.

Should I wake the hub up for some wild monkey sex?

Why is my nose numb?

Why can't I feel my lips?

Will numb nose/lips inhibit wild monkey sex?

**EDITED*** I should be embarassed posting such drivel but even a monogram queen has to cut loose once in awhile *snicker* I didn't wake him up, He wasnt' where I thought he was and when I collapsed into bed and it was empty I just closed my eyes and was down for the count Zzzzzzz.........

Remember back in October when we stayed at theWatersEdge Inn at Folly Beach? It was super deluxe - easily the nicest place i've ever stayed. I got an email from the Innkeeper offering a deal of $99 a night Sunday - Thursday (the price almost triples for the week-end) for the month of January. Oh how nice it would be to stay for a few nights during the week. Sinful even. Ride downtown to Charleston and do a little shopping because it wouldn't be busy. Not during the week, not in January. Eat at a nice restaurant downtown Charleston, peruse the Market without the week-end crowds. Eat the divine pizza from Woodys on Folly Beach. Have some fresh seafood and a few libations at Joe's Crab Shack. Maybe even drive to Sullivans Island and eat at Poe's again. They have a really nice Happy Hour at the Inn and the breakfast was super yummy also. We could walk on the Beach even if it is 20 degrees it is still wild and beautiful. Stacy doesn't get much vacation time though *sigh* Oh well, a girl can wish.......

Reilly (he is a yorkipoo and the longer his hair gets the more poodle-y he looks - cute!) lays on Madison's bed (well on her pillow is his favorite spot) while.....

Madison is in my laundry basket on the floor. She does have boy, blankie, her portable DVD player her big monogrammed blanket and probably a partridge in a pear tree in there with her! LOL

I have been tagged by Lynilu who has changed the rules on the five weird things (which I,too, have done several times) and wants five things I never pictured myself doing at age 25 and also five places I want to visit before I die so without further ado....

Five things I never pictured myself doing at age 25:

1) Being Married, to Stacy no less. We had broken up a few years earlier and I wasn't even SPEAKING to him at that point! LOL

2) That I would within the next ten years lose over 100 lbs.

3) That I would ever have a broken bone and be wheelchair bound.

4) That I would ever be responsible with money (I sure wasn't in early twenties it was all spend~spend~spend and spend some more!)

5) That I would ever dye my hair blonde and have braces!

Five Places I want to visit before I die:

1) Great Britain, I so want to see England, Paris and also Ireland and Scotland if I can squeeze them in.

2) I want to spend Christmas in a cabin with a fireplace, somewhere it snows.

3) Canada (and NOT Niagara Falls which I saw as a child)

4) New York City - a whirlwhind shopping trip and see all of the tacky, touristy things. (does anyone notice a theme, tacky, touristy, with me???)

5) Someplace warm and tropical. I don't have a specific destination. Just someplace with a beach. The Carribean (St. Maarten or Martinique) would be nice. I don't want a cruise either I don't think. Flying there would be fine.

There you have it! I'm not tagging anyone but if you want to do it i'll be glad to come and read!

It's amazing how a few French Martini's can take a shitty attitude and turn it around. My Mamma used to say "turn that frown upside down" LOL

To my cherished Blog Friends, Lurkers and anyone else who visits my little slice of the blogosphere .... may you have a Happy, Healthy, Prosperous and Blessed 2008

To the Haters you can just kiss my ass okay? Don't need you, don't care what you think, just go away. Karma's nipping at your heels.

Is'nt blunk drogging fun?