Yesterday I wrote about Valentines Day (which is tomorrow). As you all know I love holidays. I am sort of sad that Easter comes early this year. Next month St. Patrick's Day is on March 17th (as always) and then on March 23rd (less than a week later) comees Easter. I am not even putting out my holiday flags, just keeping my SC State Flag flying until it gets warm enough to put up my summer "Flip Flop" themed one. I already have most of my Valentines purchases. I still need to get two more things to complete my list. Then it's on to Easter! I like to buy early because if you don't all the good stuff is gone. Maddie is excited about her Valentines Party at school tomorrow. I will (probably) make treat bags for work and Stacy's work and the kids in Madison's dance class. Stacy is cooking me dinner tonight - cube steak, gravy and mashed potatoes. Something we haven't had in awhile. I'm sure it will be yummy!

For this week-end i'm trying to plan what I want to do. I hope my sometimes unreliable niece can get us a room reserved (she works for the Hilton Chain) as it will be a busy week-end in Charleston and I asked her last week. As I said she's unreliable but I guess I will call her tonight and check. I am not sure where I want us to eat dinner at (the "dress up" dinner). Maybe California Dreaming ... there is a thrift shop on King Street i'd like to visit. Strangely enough I don't think I care about going to the Market. Been there done that and it's always the same. Oh well i've got time to think about it! Enough rambling here. I'm done for now.
Oh and I had some "issues" with my blogroll so if you disappeared off of it and want back on let me know.

Valentines Day is fast approaching. I do not have any high expectations for it. We are going away this week-end (for which i'm very glad) but I am trying not to have any high expectations for that either. That way I won't be disappointed. My sweet hub did try to book us a Dinner Cruise but it was already booked up. He gets an "E" for effort on that one. He did try. I am convinced there are three kinds of Valentines Couples. 1) they totally ignore the holiday and the wife secretly resents it (or sometimes not so secretly) 2) the husband goes all out, flowers at work etc. to impress her co-workers. 3) the hub genuinely does not know what in the hell to do. He wants to but spending mucho $ on flowers seems a waste to him. The wife wants him to go all out for her and make her feel really really special. But spending mucho $ on flowers seems a bit silly to her too. I already have gifts for Stacy from Madison and the pets and i'm doing a little something for him also. I think he will be pleased.
I bought a "little black dress" this past week-end. I've always wanted to get dressed up for Valentines Day and even though we are not going on the cruise i'm getting dressed up for dinner or whatever we do. I want to feel beautiful and special. Something I haven't felt in awhile.

But my DOG is! LOL I got Reilly a Coach Collar while on my shopping trip. I'm waiting until he goes to the groomer to wear it on him though.

We didn't go to Charlotte but ended up at Myrtle Beach. We stayed at Broadway At The Beach and we just did what we wanted and had a really nice time. I spent too much money (although I did of course get good deals on what I bought and 90% of that was for Maddie) but oh well you only live once and I had fun.

It has been a busy/crazy past 24 hours. I had a long involved doctor appt yesterday so I wasn't at work part of the morning and all afternoon. If I hadn't have done yesterday's post on Monday I would have been out of luck! I haven't read all the comments nor responded and I am sorry. Next week should be a quiet one, the boss is going to FL and if nothing pops up in his absence i'll have plenty of blog time!
I picked Mad up and went by my parents (haven't saw them all week) and by the time we got home, Stacy was home and we raced off to danceclass. Then it was dinner at Raceway Grill (Ryan you've got to eat there in May) and home and BED. My girl didn't want to get up this a.m. and had a crying fit at school. That was tough but we weatherd. Miss Odessa called Stacy and I both and reported she was fine within five minutes, ate a great breakfast and was wiping off the tables to clean up.
You all know i've got shopping plans (my sister is now saying we might go to Myrtle Beach but I don't care long as I get to go somewhere!) but what are YOU doing this week-end? Big Plans? Nothing? Errands/Cleaning? Spill!

My baby on our Isle Of Palms vacation last August taken by

Katie

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In 2006 at Huntington Beach State Park. I could just kiss those sweet little knobby baby knees!!!!!

My Lord my girl is growing by leaps and bounds. She brings so much joy to my life. There are a million smiles Stacy and I've shared, delighted over something our little daughter has done. She is like a little sunbeam. I am so grateful for her.

I am kinda in a mellow mood this a.m. I actually had time to go Maddie's school with Stacy and meet Whitney the regular morning girl who was out sick when we both dropped her off on Monday. She seems really nice. She said she loves working there.
I am going to Charlotte with my sister this week-end and I am SO excited. Not as good as going away with Stacy but i'll take it. I love having something to look forward too!

Okay I KNOW the first picture is washed out! Getting ready to go!

Standing tall wearing her big girl backpack!

Her and Mikayla, they are the first ones there in the morning. Getting ready for breakfast.

(Shaddup Katie!) Mamma's got a new purse! The "on-the-go" Vera Bradley bag in Mod Pink. Okay it's smaller than the Villager but I love the long wide shoulder strap. Got a matching wallet too!

Madison and her little friend Kaitlyn who is five. These two are a MESS!

Isn't she just gorgeous. I know she's my kid but gosh she was so pretty!

Her gloves were too big LOL They remind me of "minnie mouse"

"I am ready to perform!"

She has NO stage fright at all. This thing didn't start until 7p.m. (her bedtime is 8p.m.) and the performed two seperate numbers but she did so good. A real "pro"! I am so proud of my little girl. Tomorrow pics of her first day at pre-school!

I'm still smiling even if I didn't get that job! Who knows maybe I would have hated doing it (lots of number crunching) anyway i'm a firm believer in "what's meant to be will happen" and it will! I have had a weird feeling because it went to far past the date I was told I was hear. I think things are going on behind the scenes here at Crying Cow but anyway it's FRIDAY! Hope you all have a swell week-end!

Still no word on the job....

It's cold as a witches titty in a brass bra this morning!

I am wearing leggings and a long tunic but I look like a teen-aged hooker in a micro mini (or so i've been told - by an obviously blind person eh.....)

Madison told me this morning she doesn't want to get big she wants to stay a little girl (me too baby, me too)

On a positive note...

At least I do have a job right now and am not dependent on the other one

It looks like we won't be paying to the IRS this year Yiipeeeeee!!!!!!

Valentines is two weeks away and I really really hope it's better than Christmas was.

Silly and Sassy......still no word on the job (it's in-house,same company btw) this is my hair in it's natural state and natural color. My Mother would say it looks like a chicken had an epileptic fit on my head LOL

This is Rainbow. He is our betta fish. I don't like fish but Rainbow is growing on me. Yeah that probably means a death sentence for ol' Rainbow. Poor Fishie.

You can't tell little miss Madison "anything" in her new carseat! She finally weighs enough for a big girl booster! She requested a pink princess one and that is what she got!

The color is actually truer to this picture I don't know why the the close-up of the above label on top of the seat looks orangey pink. It has dual pop-out cup holders. Classy! *wink* She LOVES riding in this.

This is sort of her treat for being such a big girl about the whole dog attack.

Your Aura is Violet

Idealistic and thoughtful, you have the mind and ideas to change the world. And you have the charisma of a great leader, even if you don't always use it! The purpose of your life: saying truths that other people dare not say Famous purples include: Mahatma Gandhi, Martin Luther King, Jr., Susan B. Anthony Careers for you to try: Political Activist, Inventor, Life Coach

What Color Is Your Aura?

I was sure my aura was black LOL I'm in pretty good company too.. Gandhi... MLK... Susan B. --Sa-weet!!!!

Beating a dead horse here but I SHOULD know something about the job today and of course i'll update :)

I'm actually feeling pretty good today!

Is this the face of confidence? I hope so! I should hear something about the job today so send thos good vibes. If I don't get it I am in for some misery where i'm at so...... fingers crossed!

I had a really nice, quiet week-end. Stacy & Mad went to the MIL's and I "stayed home with the dogs and cats" (that is what Madison told her Aunt Buffy). I went shopping with my sister on Saturday and yes I got some amazing deals once again A $45 Rothschild reversible jacket for Madison for under $10. We are putting her in pre-school starting next Monday so i've been getting her some outfits together. We are taking her to tour the school on Friday. I hope it goes well. I don't mind telling you I am nervous but I think it is best for her. She has been with Carrie since she was born and she needs to get out into a learning environment now. She can't start kindergarten at public school until she is 6. I feel that would be deragatory to her future educational opportunities so.... of course there are family members that think we are snobs sending her to Byrnes but you know what? I don't give a shit. This is my child's future and i'm doing what I think is best.
Okay tell me what YOU did this week-end :)

Also go check out Two Sisters Valentine Give-Away! They've got some cute stuff (and the girls are cutiepies too)

Mississippi Songbird tagged me to put up seven random things about me and although i've done this several times I don't mind doing it again and I love reading it when others do it! I don't put up many week-end posts either but i'm by myself this week-end so... without further ado.

1) I know the saying goes that a woman should cut her hair when she reaches 40 but I honestly feel I look better with longer hair.

2) I have just come to the decision to cut loose a long-time friend. The friendship has run it's course i'm afraid. I am sad but I think i'll feel better when the pretense is over with.

3) I almost moved to Boston in my mid-20's before I got married. I had a job lined up and even went up to scout out apartments. I am glad I didn't do it though. I have no regrets about that.

4) I do not like sausage. I will eat it on a very rare occasion but it is one breakfast food I just do not like. Give me bacon any day.

5) I cannot stand soccer. I don't even like to watch little kids playing it. I used to go with my BFF to watch her nephew play and it bored me to TEARS.

6) I love the way my hair looks the day I wash it but I can't wash it every day. It would dry it out too much. The next day, no matter if I sleep flat on my face the night before, it looks scraaggly. I HATE scraggly hair! LOL

7) I hate talking on the telephone. I have become almost phobic about it and wonder if it's healthy. I let all of my workcalls go to voicemail 90% of the time. I will answer my cellphone if I know who is calling though. I feel like a freak about this.

Okay that is it.... I am not going to tag anyone but if you did it let me know! Hope you all have a happy week-end!

I had to go get a new ID badge picture made (the other was short blonde hair - so not me these days LOL) then look over some stuff before I remembered I didn't put up a blog post yet.

Still no word on the job but I am supposed to hear something today. I will post an update when I do so y'all send positive vibes okay? Just some random things i'm going to post in bullets.

* I hate waiting on things but I love having something to look forward to. Does that make ANY sense?

* I am so sick sick sick of going to doctors and the people I love having to go to the doctor. I could just SCREAM.

* Sometimes my husband DOES take the intiative and does something even when I tell him not to. Thanks honey.

* Why in the world is everything associated with dance class so freaking expensive? Almost $90 for a costume that she would normally only wear at her recital (but they have an engagement at the Miss Darlington Pagaent next Saturday night) is excessive in my opinion. Not to mention we always have to buy the "special" tights and this time "special" paint to paint the shoes. Geez Louise!

* Why can I not chase away this little black cloud that seems to be following me around these days??? Shoo! Little Cloud - Shoo!

* I know I am the one in control of my own happiness. Why can't I break free and do something if I really want to? Why do I always make excuses? I get so mad at myself.

* Posting random thoughts on my blog does not constitute talking to my internet friends behind anyone's back. It is just a way to vent. I repeat -Just a way to vent. Cheaper than going to a psychiatrist too.

* There is a picture of Madison right after she turned 1 wearing a beautiful red dress for Christmas. We did it so her "Pa" could see her looking so pretty. He died a few days later. I love that picture of her and will always be glad we did that.

* I miss my FIL so much. For some odd reason I had a dream about him and SFG's FIL last night. Maybe because we both loved our FIL's alot.

* Thank you to everyone who takes a moment to come here and read my mundane postings. Even if you don't leave a comment, I appreciate you. The ones who do comment, and especially the ones who comment regularly, Thank You from the bottom of my heart for caring and making me smile, making me laugh and giving different points of view.

Yeah I think we're going on a beachy bent next Christmas. Although I know I have my airblown detractors likePurpleTwinkie and LeLo but hey these were 90% off. Who could resist such a bargain? I also got a surfboard Santa for my nephew Chad. That's all they had though or I guess I would have got them all and found homes for them later. I can't resist a homeless airblown *smirk*

My "new" readers can go back to November and check out my 2007 Christmas decor. Don't hate!

Now... if only I could find a way to get an airblown of my monogram. Oh the possibilities!

Shamelessly stolen from TigerYogi

What is in the back seat of your car right now? A carseat, some crumbs, maybe a few petrified french fries or m&m's hell Jimmy Hoffa may reside there for all I know!

When was the last time you threw up? Beginning of last month when I had a little virus. Yuck!

What’s your favorite curse word? The “F” word but i'm working on it. So unladylike.

Name 3 people who made you smile today? Mmmm I haven't exactly smiled yet

What were you doing at 8 a.m. this morning? It's not 8 yet!

What were you doing 30 minutes ago? Dressing Madison and feeding the dog and cats

Have you ever been to a strip club? Yes

What is the last thing you said aloud? God I hope I get that job!

What is the best ice cream flavor? French Vanilla

What was the last thing you had to drink? Coke Zero

What are you wearing right now? Monogrammed sweater, navy tights, navy skirt, plaid ballet flats, bra & undies (like i'd admit if I went commando HAH!) wedding rings and silver signet ring given to me by Katie & Cheeky.

What was the last thing you ate? A doughnut last night

Have you bought any new clothes this week? Yes

Where were you last? The parking lot at Crying Cow Bank

What’s the last sporting event you watched? The Packers/Giants heartbreak Sunday

Who won? New York

Who is the last person you sent a comment/message while blogging? Probably Andie

Ever go camping? Yes,a long time ago

Where do you live? Darlington, South Carolina

What song are you listening to? Nothing

Do you tan? Yes

Do you drink your soda from a straw? No

What did your last text message say? "it's all good" (re: football game)

Who’s your best friend? Stacy

What are you doing tomorrow? Work and Dance Class

Where is your mom right now? At home sitting at the breakfast table

Look to your right, what do you see? A telephone, adding machine, some trays.

What color is your watch? Not wearing a watch today

What do you think of when you think of where you live? NASCAR (everybody does)

Ever ridden on a roller coaster? Yes. I love them!

What is your birthstone? Opal

Do you go in at a fast-food place or just hit the drive through? I prefer to go in, I despise take out food.

What is your favorite number? 38

Do you have a dog? Yes my darling Reilly

Last person you talked to on the phone? Kathy

Have you met anyone famous? Yes several Nascar drivers, New Kids On The Block, ummm others but i'm drawing a blank now.

Any plans today? Work, Pick up baby, cook dinner.

How many states have you lived in? PA, VA (briefly) & SC so that's three.

Ever go to college? Yes

Where are you right now? At work.

Biggest annoyance in your life right now? I want some time away with the hub.

Are you struggling to forgive someone right now? No. I’m past that.

Are you allergic to anything? Pollen & that kind of stuff.

Favorite pair of shoes? Oh God I can't pick just one!

Feel free to steal this (DAWN) LOL

Finish the sentence....
I saw this on a blog awhile back, and I thought it would be fun to do it again. Let me know if you play too!

Finish the sentence with the 1st thought that comes to your mind.

I know....I will get this job I interviewed for

I believe...in miracles.

I fought.... alot with those I love most last week

I am angered....by things not going as I want them to

I love....my husband and daughter more than anything

I need....some alone time somewhere with my husband

I take..... more than I give lately

I hear....none too well these days

I drink.....too much diet soda

I hate....not having anything to "look forward to"

I use.... correct punctuation

I want.....to go on a trip

I like.....being silly

I feel....thankful

I wear....a denim shirt, black trousers, multi colored ribbon ballet flats, my wedding rings, silver monogram ring, monogram bracelet and monogram necklace.

I left....the bed un-made this morning

I do..... want my kitchen sink unclogged

I hope....my husband will surprise me very soon

I dream....about going back to school in the Fall (and i'm working on it)

I drive....a car that's paid for but I wish I could win a contest for a new one

I listen....to the radio while driving in the car

I type..... fast

I think.... about both sides of the situation

I need... a trip somewhere

I wish... we would hit the lottery for a few million

I am.... a good person

I regret.... some things but not much

I care.... what people think of me

I should....lose weight

I am.... a wife,mother,daughter,sister,aunt and friend

I said.... more in my interview than I thought I would

I wonder....if my husband is truly glad he married me

I changed....when I became a mother.

I cry...easily

I lose.... track of my thoughts alot

I leave... as much negativity behind as I can

I will get caught up on my blog visits today! And respond to your comments of yesterday. I hope everyone enjoyed their day off for MLK Day if you had it!

First off Satuday morning we had a birthday party at Chik-A-Lay for my nephew Ethan. Here are Brittany & Madison

Although Dr. Whitehead wouldn't clear her to go to Fundaygo she still played some at Chik-A-Lay - wildchild! LOL

Here are me, Carrie and my sister Kathy. How come I always get caught in a "dorky" pose???

Me & Stac chowing down on breakfast :)

Then that afternoon we went to a Pig Pickin' at our friend Bo & Stacey's. Can I just be corny and say "Bo KNOWS BBQ?" The man produced one mean pig and his sauce.. oh his sauce. Delish! It was a nice bunch of peeps.

Am I still a Packers Fan? YOU BETCHA! (disappointed though)

Maria at I Can See Clearly Now surprised us with a boxful of goodies yesterday in the mail! Maddie was so happy when she saw it!

Then she got undressed to get dressed for dance class and in the middle started opening her box. Mixed up funny little kid!
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The Biscuit's Valentines Day book is so cute! She also got a ton of drawing stuff and crayons, markers and a frou~frou pen that Mommy might just hi-jack *snicker* This kid just LOVES to write, draw, color and I love the cool chicks on the card! Click on pic to see the card but ignore the clutter behind her Mmmmkay?......
Thank You so much Maria and family for making another day so special for my little one. She said "Why all these people love me Mommy" I said "Because you are so-o-o-o special my darling!". That seemed to satisfy her..
She got her stitches out yesterday but we still have to watch the bites for infection. One looks bad still. :( She still went to danceclass llike a trouper!